she's ready for love
33-day self-paced audio initiation
You've done the therapy. Read the books. Healed and grown. So . . . where is he?
Before you meet your King, you have to step into your Queen.
Date Like a Queen is the 33-day initiation that moves you from waiting to be chosen into being the woman who receives.
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200+ women initiated.
Soul-mate connections.
Engagements.
Marriages.
33 days to become the woman who can finally receive him. Here's what happens between now and then:
You stop performing on dates and start actually enjoying them, because you arrive already turned on by your own life.
The caliber of men in your orbit visibly shifts.
You walk into every room (dates, work, family) as the Queen, and watch how differently the world responds.
And instead of chasing love, you become the woman who receives it.
Built on the Queen Embodiment Method: a practice you do at home in the time it takes to play one song. Feel the shift in the first ten minutes of Day One. Walk differently within three days. Complete the initiation in 44.
Women who've lived it say it like this
"There is a shift in the type of men I'm attracting. They are spiritual, grounded and don't 'need' me."
Andria
"I got my money's worth the day we started. I'm the damn prize."
Kristen
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Join by August 7 to get the expiring bonus: The Goddess Activation.
Let me guess how dating actually feels right now.
I asked hundreds of past students to describe dating before Date Like a Queen, here's what came back:
Exhausting.
Anxious.
Guarded.
Depleted.
Numb.
Crickets.
And underneath the one-word answers, the same story, in almost the same words:
"I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. And when a kind one shows up, I feel nothing."
"I end up over-giving, over-analyzing, and under-receiving. Chasing emotional breadcrumbs and calling it 'chemistry.'"
"Most men have said 'I'm too much' after I was just being honest."
"I feel like I have to earn love. It's never just been given to me."
"Deep down I keep wondering . . . how much more of me needs fixing before this happens?"
If your chest tightened reading any of those, keep reading. Because I didn't write them. Women exactly like you did.
Here's what nobody has told you: there is nothing wrong with you.
You are not behind. You are not broken. And you do not need to be "more healed" before love can find you.
But here's what IS happening. Somewhere along the way, probably around age three, you learned to monitor how you're perceived instead of feeling what's actually alive in you. Smile more. Take up less space. Don't be so much.
So you adapted. Brilliantly. You became easier. Lighter. More palatable.
And here's the cost no one warned you about: when you show up as a dialed-down version of yourself, you attract men who are compatible with the dialed-down version.
Then we call dating broken. We call men trash. But they're just responding to the version you're projecting.
Your work doesn't require you to be fully yourself. Your family might not either. But true love is the one thing that does. If you want true love, you have to practice being truly yourself.
That's not mindset work. You can't think your way there. You've read the books already. It has to happen in your body.
And here's the man who shows up when you start dating like a Queen.
Right now, you might believe what one woman told me word for word: that the men she'd been meeting fell "on the spectrum of trash (from dust bin to dumpster fire)." Or what another wrote: "all the good men are taken."
So let me tell you who starts appearing when you raise your standard and lead with the fullest version of you.
In their exact words:
"Emotionally in tune and aware."
"Makes me laugh."
"Consistent, funny, kind, respectful, thoughtful."
"Safe in himself and in knowing what he wants and brave to express."
"Adoring and devoted, present and playful."
"An incredible provider (of safety, holding, love, gifts)."
"Masculine leader yet collaborative."
"Integrity as his top value."
"A best friend."
"King energy, big heart, affectionate, attractive/fit, makes me laugh."
A best friend with King energy who still gives you butterflies, the good kind.
And I'm not describing a fantasy. I'm describing the men my graduates attract:
"There is a shift in the type of men I'm attracting. They are spiritual, grounded and don't 'need' me. The guy I've been talking to most recently is the most attracted I've ever felt to someone, and he has incredible emotional depth and awareness."
Andria
"The guys I matched with during the program felt a lot more interesting though - I was definitely calling that in and it's exciting."
Celia
Because here's the law of it: when you show up as the Queen, the Kings can finally recognize you.
And the most beautiful part? He's already out there, being prepared for you in the exact same way you're about to be prepared for him.
That's what the next 33 days are for.
The Queen Embodiment Method: stop chasing him. Start receiving him.
A flower doesn't chase the bee. She doesn't uproot herself, perform, or try to be another flower. She roots. She opens. She produces her nectar. And the bee, who is literally built to find her, comes to her.
The Queen Embodiment Method is three steps you practice in the time it takes to play one song: slow down, open up, receive. Breath-led, body-first, done at home. No experience needed. No performing, ever.
Women who practiced it for five days
"After day one, I felt like I got a pelvis or womb replacement. So spacious and graceful."
Justine
"Within just five days, I'm breathing deeper, my hips aren't so tight, I'm setting boundaries I didn't think I could."
Becca
"My confidence has sky-rocketed."
Sara
Five days. Imagine 44.
From toxic relationships to a love that feels like home.
Hi, I'm Samantha.
My story became a global phenomenon when I shared that an ex-partner of five years told me I was too much, too emotional, too needy. That no man could ever "handle me." I handed back the engagement ring and walked away.
That began years of studying ancient feminine healing practices with priestesses, healers, and shamans around the world.
During a Reiki session, I saw my future husband in a vision. Instead of calling myself crazy, I called myself intuitive. I wrote 70 values I knew he'd have, and began dating from the Queen within me. Not chasing. Not performing. Receiving.
Within months, I met him. The exact man from my vision, down to the gray streaks in his curly hair.
My girlfriends kept asking, "What are you DOING to attract men like this?" So I documented everything: the rituals, the archetypes, the boundaries, the prayers. Since then I've taught over 200 women exactly how to access their own irresistible feminine power. And once they do, it's only a matter of time until their King finds his way home.
Everything I did is in this course. Not theory. The actual practices, in the actual order.
"There is a shift in the type of men I'm attracting. They are spiritual, grounded and don't 'need' me. The guy I've been talking to most recently is the most attracted I've ever felt to someone . . . I can both recognize him as a king and recognize myself as worthy of someone like him because of this program."
Andria, Date Like a Queen graduate
Introducing Date Like a Queen
A 33-day self-paced audio initiation. One day at a time. One song a day. Any time zone, any schedule, no experience needed. Here's everything you get:
33 daily audios that rebuild how you date from the body up, just 2 to 15 minutes each. Each one ends with a small win you can feel that same day.
Six guided embodiment audios: the Queen Method daily practice, the Rage & Worthiness Release, the Too Much Release, the Longing Embodiment, the Body Compass, and Hands Up to Receive.
The Love Spell ritual + PDF journal: the exact ritual that set my love story in motion.
A companion journal with every prompt, worksheet, and exercise.
It all starts with a three-day Magnetism Kickstart, so you feel different before the first module even begins.
Included: the dating vault
Stop the spiral. All your questions answered.
It is 11pm and he still has not texted back. Instead of asking the group chat again, you open the vault. Every question you have actually spiraled over already has an audio waiting: situationships, ghosting, how soon is too soon, when to sleep with him, how to walk away. Instant access, playable in minutes, yours for life.
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Let's Talk Situationships
26
Why Boys (Not Men) Ghost & How to Move On
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Sneaky Red Flags of the Emotionally Unavailable
24
"But He Has So Much Potential" - Girl It's a Trap!
04
Healing Heartbreak: How to Move On For Good
16
"But I've Never Felt This Way Before!!"
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How to Turn Him Down (In a Nice Way)
21
Leave Him Yearning For More
20
Intuition Check - Do You Really Like Him?
19
Asking a Guy Out IRL & Flirting Techniques
+ 27 audios and growing
no scrolling Reddit at midnight
The 33 days, shift by shift
Days 1–3
The Magnetism Kickstart
From numb and stuck in your head to turned on by your own life. In 72 hours.
Day 4
You Are Not Broken
From "am I too broken for this?" to "I'm here because I'm ready."
Days 5–7
Make Room for Love
From a life too full for love to real space for him to walk into.
Days 8–10
The Queen Method
From performing for everyone to fully at home in your body. The daily practice one woman described as feeling "like I got a pelvis or womb replacement."
Days 11–13
You're the Damn Prize
From earning love to knowing, in your bones, "I'm the damn prize."
Days 14–16
Court Yourself First
From last on your own list to the most well-courted woman you know. This is where you set the standard for how you're available to be loved.
Days 17–19
Safe to Be Seen
From "I'm too much" to "my depth, passion, and intensity aren't liabilities. They're my magic."
Days 20–22
Longing Is Your Superpower
From ashamed of how much you want him to letting that longing lead you straight to him.
Days 23–29
The Love Spell
From quietly wishing to declaring him to the universe. This is not a wish list. It's the exact ritual that set my love story in motion, cast over one candlelit evening and sealed with seven nights of speaking your King closer.
Days 30–32
Call In Your King
From over-giving and bracing for disappointment to receiving like it's your nature, and recognizing your King at hello.
Day 33
The Crowning
From who you've been to who you were born to be. Your closing love letter read aloud, and the unmistakable signs you've met your King.
Days 37–39 · Built to receive
Hands up to receive.
Inside the initiation
Press play on your walk, in the bath, on the way to the date.
Audio lessons in your earbuds on the walk. The journal open on your lap in the bath. Lifetime access, every device, no group to post in.
Self-paced audio
PDF journal
Companion journal
Date Like
a Queen
a Queen
Samantha Bove
33 days
Plus 3 bonuses women are losing their minds over
BONUS 01
A Conversation with a King
An intimate recorded conversation with my partner, Los. Graduates call these sessions "permission-giving AF," because hearing it from a safe, embodied man just hits different. Proof he exists.
BONUS 02
Solo Sex Magic
The self-pleasure manifestation practice that turns your own life force into your most potent spell.
BONUS 03
Healing Heartbreak
How to get over him for good, for the nights you need it.
Expires August 7
And one bonus that expires: The Goddess Activation
Join by August 7 and you'll also unlock a one-hour guided energy transmission of Reiki, music, and ancient feminine lineage, made to awaken the goddess who has been in you all along.
This comes from the priestess lineage that led me to my own love story. Women who have received it describe feeling connected to a power they'd been searching for in meditation apps and healing sessions for years.
After August 7, it comes off this offer.
In their words, not mine
From Date Like a Queen graduates
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"This was the best self development program I've ever done for myself - cannot thank you enough for holding the container and truly opening your heart to each woman within it. Eternally grateful for you and your work."
Andria Scarcello
"There is a shift in the type of men I'm attracting. They are spiritual, grounded and don't "need" me. The guy I've been talking to most recently is the most attracted I've ever felt to someone, and he has incredible emotional depth and awareness. I can both recognize him as a king and recognize myself as worthy of someone like him because of this program."
Andria Scarcello
"Date Like a Queen helped me remember that . . . My heart is a gift and I deserve someone who expands my peace."
Andria Scarcello
"Being part of The Date Like a Queen experience has been a total game-changer for me. It gave me the space and structure to get radically clear about my intentions in dating - not from a place of scarcity or trying to "get it right," but from deep self-awareness and self-worth. [...] I'm no longer leading with compromise or old stories about what I should want. I'm leading with clarity, embodiment, and confidence. [...] I've never felt clearer about my intentions, the kind of partnership I'm calling in, and the qualities I already embody that make me such a damn good match for the kind of love I deserve."
Dina Scippa
"My biggest breakthrough was realizing that I'm not "too much" - I've just been giving too much to the wrong people. That hit me hard. For so long, I thought I needed to tone myself down or make my emotions more palatable to be loved. But through this experience, I saw that my depth, passion, and intensity aren't liabilities - they're my magic."
Dina Scippa
"Date Like a Queen isn't just about dating. It's about reclaiming your energy, your confidence, and your damn magnetism. [...] The truth is, I've spent way more time, money, and emotional energy entertaining half-hearted love than I ever invested in this program. And nothing has given me the clarity, self-trust, and peace that this experience has. If you're on the fence, that's your edge, trust it."
Dina Scippa
"With an open heart and womb the whole experience of date like a queen felt like a warm embrace with laughing and crying at the same time going to my own depth meeting the queen I am inside of me. Miraculous and so life giving. I felt a huge shift inside of me while we were doing the course learning on how to open up in front of a man feeling safe telling my truth and my desires. Something I never did before and it changed a lot in my life, not only in my love life."
Christina Sperling
"Do it. It will change something deep inside of you and this is worth every penny and minute."
Christina Sperling
"It felt like a warm invitation into a circle of kind, strong, supportive women . . . and it became a safe space to express myself and get vulnerable. I was guided into some deep self-reflection through Sam's audios, embodiment exercises and shares from everyone. It allowed me to be WAY more honest with myself and what I want for my future self."
Celia Herrera
"The guys I matched with *during* the program felt a lot more interesting though - I was definitely calling that in and it's exciting. And I do notice that people look at me and approach me more since I've gained confidence."
Celia Herrera
"Absolutely beautiful container, I loved the variety of elements - sacredness, dancing, embodiment, coaching, sharing, music, FEELING it all."
Kristen Kancler
"Absolutely worth it. I got my money's worth the day we started. I'm the damn prize."
Kristen Kancler
"This container was exactly what I needed. It gave me gentle direction and internal reflection in the most personal and supportive way imaginable. The healing and paths this has lead me to is out of this world. [...] I have step into more of my authentic divine power and I cannot wait to work with Samantha more in the future, she is a born healer. I haven't regretted investing in myself for a single second."
Francesca H
"You are deserving of being able to receive the love you dream of from yourself and others, and this is the pathway to that. Now is your time. Everything you desire most, is on the other side of fear. You are ready to take the leap of faith, otherwise you wouldn't have this opportunity."
Francesca H
On the Queen Embodiment Method & working with Samantha
"I am blown away by Samantha's presence, energy, and devotion. I signed up expecting to get a couple of tips and tricks but instead I have started to reconnect with some of the truest and deepest parts of myself. I never would have thought this was possible in such a short amount of time."
Pearl Wyman
"Within just five days, I'm breathing deeper, my hips aren't so tight, I'm setting boundaries I didn't think I could. I've cried through release and laughed through play. I'm really so in awe."
Becca Wood
"I tend to often be skeptical about things like this, and my brain always thinks I'm just going to hear stuff I've already heard before. But I genuinely learned so much, and it's so easy to incorporate. I feel more connected to my own magic, and my own potential."
DaisyJane Darling
"I have developed this deep reverence and aliveness from within. I feel sensual and powerful. [...] I have always had a fear of being "too much". During this challenge I realized this was a universal feeling for women. It made me feel so much less alone."
Haley Eburne
"Sam creates rooms that your soul knows you need to be in. Her passion for women and sisterhood and juicy feminine embodiment is palpable and contagious. Her energy could power an entire city. This challenge made me feel held and seen and empowered."
Lesley Klay
"That inner whisper of "maybe this could be possible for me" has transformed into an overflowing knowing that "wow this is here for me whenever I choose, the power is in my hands to cultivate this in my mind, body, emotions, and soul.""
Meg Vetter
"It's not another masterclass where you get sold on a future course - there was so much value inside. I can't recommend this enough to women - it gives you tools you can take forward to continue deepening your relationship with yourself and all of life."
Sarah Bloch
"In our sessions i started connecting so deeply with my own spark, my sensuality, my erotic energy. This part had been dormant in the past months and even years and connecting with it means so much more than this relationship ever could have. IM ALIVE!!! And the future is bright."
Rosa Hudepohl
"In just 5 days, I experienced deeper emotional fulfilment, genuine bliss, and a clarity I hadn't felt. If you're a woman on the fence about joining - say yes with your whole heart!"
Ankita Paryani
"It was a comming home to my feminine sensual essence. It was there all along, just buried under the dominance of my mind. I loved Samantha's loving approach to the group and the embodiment practices."
Jana Klucka
"I love Samantha's Energy. She makes us feel safe with all our feelings. The practices feel like a hug at the same time have an edge. She speaks like such a lover, that it's super inspiring to embody what she embodies."
Novina Khanwani
"This challenge was so supportive in me softening back into myself and who I really am. Remembering my power & my worth. It felt like a big warm embrace back into myself. Permission to just be ourselves and lean into love."
Andy Burgat
"This work is about more than just calling in your divine counterpart, it's about enjoying the pleasure of being your own counterpart and the world just reflects it back to you as a result."
Lindsey Hargesheimer
This is for you if . . .
You're fresh out of a breakup and you refuse to repeat the pattern (honestly? there is nothing more magnetic than a woman post-breakup).
You've quietly stopped dating, "focused on yourself," but you know a part of it is self-protection.
You're actively dating and exhausted by apps, breadcrumbs, and maybe-men.
You're in a situationship or a relationship and you want MORE: deeper, bigger, more devoted (there's a whole clinic for you inside).
You've done the therapy, read the 30 books, developed your spirituality, and you're realizing the work now is in your body.
It's not for you if . . .
You want texting rules, games, and tricks to manipulate men. Kings don't respond to games, and I don't teach them.
You want someone to promise you a husband by a deadline. Love is a miracle, not a formula, and I won't rob you of the mystery.
You're not willing to press play and move your body for one song a day.
"I want this . . . but."
"It's a lot of money right now."
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A graduate said it better than I ever could: "I've spent way more time, money, and emotional energy entertaining half-hearted love than I ever invested in this program. And nothing has given me the clarity, self-trust, and peace that this experience has." There's a payment plan (3 payments of $111) because I want this accessible. And as another woman wrote before she joined: "Money will always come back. I deserve to invest in myself."
"Is this just another Instagram-coach program?"
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The skeptics are my favorite reviews: "I tend to often be skeptical about things like this, and my brain always thinks I'm just going to hear stuff I've already heard before. But I genuinely learned so much, and it's so easy to incorporate that I've been working the techniques into my daily life." Every practice inside is something I have embodied and still practice daily.
"Can't I just do this on my own?"
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You've been trying. You know the concepts. You could probably teach them. But knowing it in your head and feeling it in your body are two different lives. This is the body version, sequenced, with a structure that makes you actually do it.
"I don't have time."
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It's audio. Listen on your walk, in the bath, while you cook. The daily practice is one song long. One graduate joined precisely because she could commit with the capacity she actually had, and finished saying it was the most consistent she has ever been with anything, because it came from devotion rather than discipline.
"What if I'm not healed enough yet?"
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That question is the first thing we dissolve, in the very first audio. You are not here because you're broken. You're here because you're ready.
"What if I let myself hope again and it doesn't happen for me?"
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One woman wrote this before joining: "I am hesitant to believe this can change my life and then feel disappointed." I understand her completely. And here's what I know: toning down your hope so it can't hurt you also tones down your ability to receive. Your longing is not a setup for disappointment. It's the bridge. And the woman who came in convinced she had to be fully healed before she could call in partnership left saying this: "That inner whisper of 'maybe this could be possible for me' has transformed into an overflowing knowing."
"Honestly . . . it feels a little embarrassing to need a dating program."
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So hear this: this course is audio, in your earbuds, on your walk, in your bathtub. There is no group you have to post in. No calls where anyone sees your face. Nobody has to know until you show up to Thanksgiving glowing with a King on your arm. Wanting support with this isn't a character flaw. It's the same instinct that got you a therapist, or a trainer, or a business coach.
"Is this even the right season? My energy is going to my business."
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I totally get how adding something else onto your plate could feel overwhelming, but at the core of this program is raising your self confidence, standards and ability to receive. Graduates report a massive unexpected upgrade not only in their romantic life, but in work too. It just happens.
Before you meet your King, you have to step into your Queen.
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Everything above: 33 daily audios, 6 guided practices, the Love Spell ritual and journal, all four bonuses, lifetime access. Join by August 7 and The Goddess Activation is yours too.
"You're not just investing in a program. You're investing in the woman you're becoming. And she's so worth it."
Dina, graduate
The live version of this program sold for $797. Women who work with me privately invest thousands. The full 33-day initiation, yours for life, is:
$247
or 3 payments of $111
That's less than the cost of the dinners you'll no longer waste on maybe-men.
Yes, I'm ready to receive→
Protected by the 24-Hour Love It or Leave It guarantee.
Questions, answered
How long does it take?
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You get lifetime access, so take three months if you want to savor it. But this is designed to move you from princess energy to queen energy in 33 days: one short audio and one song-length practice a day (15 to 25 minutes, on your walk, in the bath, while you cook). There is no falling behind here. There's only your pace, held inside a sacred structure.
How long do I have access?
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Lifetime. Return to it before every new chapter. Women still quote these audios a year later.
Is it live? Are there calls?
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The course is fully self-paced audio, by design. Your schedule, your time zone, your bathtub. No live calls to make, no time zone to wrestle with, no group to post in.
I'm in a relationship. Will this work for me?
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Yes. Many women have gone through this program in partnership and have experienced massive shifts in the polarity and intimacy in their relationship. The more you show up as a Queen in the relationship, the more he shows up as King (or not.)
I'm not dating right now. Should I wait?
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This season is the preparation, not the punishment. The women who start "before they're ready" are the ones who get to say "he recognized me" later.
Can you promise I'll meet my King in 33 days?
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No. And I wouldn't rob you of the mystery and the miracles that is your path to love. Love is not a formula. Love is a miracle, and you can work with miracle energy, but you can't control it. Here's what I can promise: you will walk out of these 33 days feeling more expressed, more magnetic, and more you than maybe ever before. Your standards will be raised. And when you start to hold yourself differently, the universe responds, men respond, and you'll see it. Some women meet their person during the program or shortly after. That's just the reality. But the woman you become is the guarantee.
Is this religious?
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No. I speak of God as infinite love, and I'll invite you to use whatever word feels like truth to you.
Is this just another Instagram-coach program?
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The skeptics are my favorite reviews: "I tend to often be skeptical about things like this, and my brain always thinks I'm just going to hear stuff I've already heard before. But I genuinely learned so much, and it's so easy to incorporate that I've been working the techniques into my daily life." Every practice inside is something I have embodied and still practice daily.
What if it's not for me?
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You're covered by my 24-Hour Love It or Leave It guarantee. Get inside. Press play on Day One. And if we're not a vibe fit, email team@samanthabove.com within 24 hours of purchase and you'll get a full refund. No essay required, no hard feelings. I only want women inside who feel the full-body yes.
One more thing, from my heart
Your longing isn't desperation. It's your destiny speaking to you from the future.
The ache you've maybe been ashamed of, the one you tone down so you don't "jinx it"? The fact that you read this far IS the longing. And the longing is the bridge.
You can keep entertaining half-hearted love. Or you can spend the next 33 days becoming the woman who is unmistakable to the man who's been preparing for her.
I did not need to find him. I just had to become more of myself. So do you.
Join Date Like a Queen→
Reminder: The Goddess Activation bonus expires August 7
P.S. One of my graduates said this to the woman reading this page right now, and I can't top it: "If you're on the fence, that's your edge. Trust it. Everything you want is waiting on the other side of it." See you inside, queen.