The Date Like a Queen Experience
Date like a Queen.
A 40-day journey to get you off the apps and into your King's arms — and so madly in love with your own life that love has no choice but to rise to meet you.
I see you, Queen…
You're not confused. You're not dramatic. You're not asking for "too much."
You're a woman who feels deeply, loves fully, and is finally ready to stop shrinking, settling, or self-abandoning in the name of being chosen. You're powerful everywhere else — in your work, your friendships, your spirituality — and yet dating is the one place your brilliance hasn't translated.
And I know why. You're done with almosts. Almost a relationship. Almost a commitment. Almost the right guy.
Because your heart has been whispering…
"I'm exhausted by the patterns that keep coming up in dating."
"I feel like I'm begging for crumbs. I'm scared I'll choose wrong again."
"I've done the work. Where is he?"
You ache for a divine union that doesn't just change your relationship status — it changes your lineage. And Queen, you're in the right place.
For the woman who is ready to…
Your Queen era begins today.
Call in a leader
A man who courts you, claims you, and commits — while you repel the emotionally unavailable, the ghosters, and the "I don't know what I want" men.
Embody Queen energy
So fully that setting boundaries, owning your desires, and receiving deep devotion becomes second nature.
Expand your capacity
To receive a love so deep and soul-shaking it transforms you. No more self-sabotaging, second-guessing, or questioning if you're "too much."
Redefine single
Fall so madly in love with your own life that when your King arrives, he'll have to beg you to leave your solo era behind — because it's that good.
200+ women. Soul-mate connections. Engagements. Marriages.
This is what happens when you Date Like a Queen.
The Queen's Method
Four sacred phases across your 40 days.
The Mirror
You can't call in what you're too scared to claim. Face to face with your truth, you get radically clear about what you desire, map where your energy aligns (and where it doesn't), and stop settling for almost-love.
The Secret Garden
Before you bloom, you must root. You descend into the soft soil of your own being — clearing the weeds of codependency, self-abandonment, and the fear of being "too much" — sourcing safety and worth from within, where true love will bloom.
The Invitation
You are the invitation love has been waiting for. Learn to be seen without performing, to flirt without shame or strategy, and to receive without guilt. Dating becomes your playground, not your proving ground.
The Temple
Your life becomes the altar where only devotion is welcome. You take your seat as the Queen you are. Every boundary is a blessing, every choice a prayer — and from this place, your presence alone becomes leadership.
What's waiting inside
Everything you need to become the woman love rises to meet.
30+ potent audio transmissions via a private podcast feed — answering every dating question you've ever had.
Weekly embodiment practices & self-discovery exercises to anchor the work in your body.
Get crystal clear on the exact man you're calling in — the method Samantha used to manifest a partner with 70+ qualities she envisioned.
Awaken your feminine magnetism — walk into any room dripping in confidence, radiance, and effortless magnetism.
Channeling practice & love meditation to connect with your future partner's energy now and align your life to welcome him in.
Instant, lifetime access — go at your own pace and return whenever your patterns try to pull you back.
I believe love can heal the world
Your future King is on his way. But first, the Queen in you must rise.
This isn't another self-help course to help you "find the one." It's a sacred return to the woman who doesn't wait to be chosen — because she's already chosen herself. The frequency of: "I'm not performing for love anymore. I am love."
Words from our students
Real women. Real transformation.
"The best self-development program I've ever done for myself. I'm eternally grateful for you and your work."
Andria S.
"I feel so much happier in myself and in my life. Now I'm excited to find my person — not from a need anymore, but from a 'holy sh*t, I can't wait.'"
Dr. Emily
"One of the most extraordinary experiences of my life. I feel a closeness with these women that's truly extraordinary — and more connected to my King arriving."
Kristen
"The Date Like a Queen journey reminded me that I'm not just seeking love — I'm co-creating it, intentionally and unapologetically."
Dina S.
A love letter from a student
"Being part of The Date Like a Queen experience has been a total game-changer for me. It gave me the space and structure to get radically clear about my intentions in dating — not from a place of scarcity or trying to 'get it right,' but from deep self-awareness and self-worth. I've taken the time to articulate what I truly desire in partnership, the kind of connection that aligns with the woman I've become and the one I'm still becoming.
This experience helped me see that the qualities I want in someone else are the same ones I've been nurturing within myself — groundedness, openness, passion, and emotional fluency. I'm no longer leading with compromise or old stories about what I should want. I'm leading with clarity, embodiment, and confidence.
I also learned that 'I fuck with me hard' through Sam's teachings — by learning to slow down, date myself intentionally and with epic reverence, and really look within at my truest desires. I've never felt clearer about the kind of partnership I'm calling in, and the qualities I already embody that make me such a damn good match for the love I deserve.
The Date Like a Queen journey reminded me that I'm not just seeking love — I'm co-creating it, intentionally and unapologetically."
Hi, I'm Samantha
From five years of feeling unchosen to a love that feels like a miracle.
My story became a global phenomenon when I shared that an ex-partner of five years told me I was too much, too emotional, too needy — that no man could ever "handle me." I handed back the engagement ring and walked away. That began years of studying ancient feminine healing practices with priestesses, healers, and shamans around the world.
During a Reiki session, I saw my future husband in a vision. Instead of calling myself crazy, I called myself intuitive. I wrote 70+ qualities I knew he'd have, and began dating from the Queen within me. Within months, I met him — the exact man from my vision, down to the gray streaks in his curly hair.
I've taught over 200 women exactly how to access their own irresistible feminine power. And once they do, it's only a matter of time until their King finds his way home.
Choose your path
Say yes to your Queen era.
Instant access · Go at your own pace · Lifetime access to revisit whenever you need.
Self-Study
The full 40-day journey, go at your own pace.
- ✦ 30+ audio transmissions via private podcast
- ✦ Weekly embodiment & self-discovery practices
- ✦ Instant access · lifetime access
Date Like a Queen
or 3 payments of $447 · the deepest transformation.
- ✦ Everything in Self-Study
- ✦ The complete Queen's Method container
- ✦ Rituals, practices & the love transformation of a lifetime
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Before you say yes
Questions, answered
Single Mama Scholarship
For the women raising children while still longing to be seen, held, and chosen in love.
We grant a limited number of full-access scholarships to Date Like a Queen on a rolling basis. If you feel the call, we want to hear your story. Share where you are, what you're navigating, and why this work feels meaningful for you now.
Apply — team@samanthabove.com
Weird, wild, a little feral, definitely soft — trust the yes
Your King is close.
Give me 40 days, and I'll walk with you as you become the woman who never settles again — in love, or in life.
Claim Your Love Today